Episode 115 – RubberKai & David Ocean

This week, we had the pleasure of having two guests to talk with us. RubberKai and David Ocean are married kinksters, a lot of fun, and very hot. They opened up to tell us all about their kink history and how they met, fell in love, and got married. We’ve talked about polyamory before, but they bring their unique perspective and a great energy to the discussion. It’s obvious that they enjoy what they do.

We had a blast with them. Don’t miss this one!

Show Notes

In the News

Discussion Topics

  • Kink background
  • How they met, dated, and got married
  • Travelling around
  • Polyamory and openness to guys outside the relationship
  • PrEP positive
  • Introversion and extroversion
  • Finding a special mate

About Our Guests

RubberKai is a traveling and flying kinkster hoping to shine up the world. A kinkster since he was legally allowed to be, Kai started into the kink scene at 18. Presently based in Chicago with his husband, and ever expanding rubber collection, he is an active member of the Chicago Rubbermen and is on the board of Mister International Rubber where he has been running the Demo/Play pit for the last 4 years.  In his free time he repairs/alters rubber clothing and other kink gear, is a bit of a gym bunny, and sews costumes. Originally from the Midwest he has called 7 states home and has visited 25 states and 13 countries. Kinky traveling piques his interest and he regularly visits several ‘three letter acronym’ events all over over the world, helping him study languages, German at the moment. You can find him on Facebook as ‘Kai Van Der Gummi’ or on twitter as @RubberKai. A little dirtier RubberKai, can be found on Recon, Gay Romeo, and a few SeriousMaleBondage videos. Finally, Kai is proud to flag Red, Grey, Yellow, Blue, Light Pink, Black Velvet, Leopard and Houndstooth.

David Ocean has been actively open about being a slut for his entire adult life. After a short life in porn and nude dancing circa-2002, David decided to become open and candid about his sexual proclivities in hopes that his open and candid life might give comfort to others attempting to do the same. While still as slutty as ever, he now chooses to focus his time on his beautiful husband, great friends, hot kink, and dirty sexcapades. Traveling the world at his husband’s side, David has had the opportunity to attend leather events in not only his home of Chicago, IL, but also California, Arizona, Washington DC, Seattle, Berlin, London, Amsterdam, and more. An avid PrEP (Truvada) connoisseur, and occasional XXX performer, David is a pierced tattooed ginger who just can’t get enough. He is continually looking for ways to expand the community of kinksters, and abolish PrEP / Slut Shaming. You can follow David on Twitter at @DavidOceanXXX or Tumblr at http://blog.davidocean.com.


Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Double Duty Gag.


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