About DVous1

Vous1, otherwise known as Damien has lived in the Pacific Northwest for 7 years and before that was a corn and cheese-fed midwestern boy. Shedding his innocence upon his arrival in Seattle, he was ushered into the kink world by his partner Sparky and with the help of several other important Daddies and boys along the way. DVous1 continues his growth as a switch and always looks forward to meeting new people and have new experiences!
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Episode 265 – Rumor Has It

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A troubling death of a young man in the community leads to many questions about how he died and how he lived leading up to his untimely death. We don’t want to get into the details of his death due to the amount of rumor and speculation happening, but his situation does bring up some important topics for discussion.

 Show Notes

  • Our Topics
    • Silicone Oil Injections as Body Mod
      • Used for permanent enlargement
      • Potentially deadly if the loose silicone oil migrates to other parts of the body or bloodstream. This can happen at any time, even years later.
      • Once injected it’s impossible to totally remove or to prevent possible future complications
    • Kink-Abusive Relationships
      • Psychological abuse in the community is insidious and hard to spot from the outside
      • Many tenants of Dom/sub kink relationships can be easily twisted into abuse leading to a cascading spiral of further abuse
      • Be careful about becoming financially dependent or isolated from family or friends
      • A Dom can’t take the place of a lack of self-worth, and handing it over to them puts you into a dangerous situation that will not let you grow or heal

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Episode 264 – Piss Goats

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Today we catch up with the world and ourselves with a heavy dose of news. This wide-reaching show stretches from aromanticism to a naked Florida man!

 Show Notes

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Episode 263 – Queer Cripple

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We have an enlightening conversation with awareness expert Andrew Gurza about all forms of discrimination affect our society and our sexual community. We also talk about the use of language and how it relates to discrimination verses self-acceptance.

 Show Notes

  • In the News
    • Praising someone as a gold star gay is the queer equivalent of militant heterosexuality. Belittling bisexuality as illegitimate or less acceptable does a disservice to the cause of all seeking acceptance.

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Guest Bio

Andrew Gurza is a Disability Awareness Consultant and Cripple Content Creator whose written work has been featured in Daily Xtra, Gay Times UK, Huffington Post, The Advocate, Everyday Feminism, Mashable, and Out.com, and several anthologies. He has guested on a number of podcasts including Dan Savage’s Savage Love and Cameron Esposito’s Queery. He has spoken all over North America on sex, disability and what it means to be a Queer Cripple. He is also the host of the DisabilityAfterDark: The Podcast Shining a Bright Light on Sex and Disability available on all podcast platforms. You can follow the podcast @disaftdarkpod. You can find out more about Andrew by going to www.andrewgurza.com & connecting with him on Twitter @andrewgurza

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Episode 262 – Flogging the Monkey

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Flogging, whipping, and paddling are common kinks but despite the seeming simplicity of the act, there are a lot of choices of an implement, as well as safety concerns to remember.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • The origin of the phrase “tossing the salad”
  • In the News
  • Our Topic

    • Floggers
      • Cowhide (thud)
      • Mixed leather/rubber (stingy thud)
      • Elk (heavy thudder)
      • Suede looped falls (thudder, good for beginners)
      • Rotary cowhide
      • Rope flogger, (DIY, Made it in the early 90’s.)
      • Braided cat
    • Whips
      • 3ft single tale
      • Cat’s claw
    • Paddles
      • Leather
      • Wood
      • Leather/wood with holes
      • Rubber
      • Gloved
      • Bare hands
      • OTK
    • DIY
      • Spoons
      • Hairbrushes
      • Rope floggers
      • Paracord floggers

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Ungagged 34 – Smooth Operator

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There are many reasons one might want to shave or manscape some or all body hair. Today we’re going deeper into the best methods for hair removal.

 Show Notes

  • In the News
    • Arkansas welcomes a statue of the satanic goat monster to the state capitol.
    • A couple caught on video having sex in a park in Leeds, UK were stopped mid-tryst by a slapping bystander.
    • A 24-year-old man urinated on a man mid-flight over the Pacific.
    • Japanese sex toy maker releases a transforming robot in the likeness of its popular masturbation toy.
    • Columbians are told a good way to keep cool in the record heat is to stop having sex.

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  • Our Topic: Hair Removal
    • There are many reasons one might want to shave or manscape some or all body hair
    • Removing hair is a violent act to the skin and it requires some special care if it’s going to become routine.
      • Exfoliate to remove dead skin before removal. Be careful with doing it after.
      • Soften your skin when using an epilator, soften the hair for shaving
      • Remove the hair, then clean and apply a protectorate like a lotion
      • Suggestion: Coochy Body Shave Cream
    • Waxing we suggest going to a professional
    • An epilator is like a machine the plucks the hair out as opposed to cutting the hair
    • De-epilator cream like Nair or Veet essentially burns the hair away. Never use this near naughty bits. It smells awful and is not fun to clean up.
    • We also suggest The Art of Shaving pr.

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Episode 260 – Ten Questions

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Today we’re answering the first 10 questions provided by our listeners in out Telegram chat room. Hear everything from how we decided to start the podcast to the biggest “thing” we’ve ever taken! Thank you to Sir Arcane, Filli Maris, James Smith, Pup Peter, Vel, Pup Taxyl, Kupo, Wingman DBQ, Pup Dante, and Trikoot!

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • There are some targeted congressional districts to flip!
      • Florida’s 26th Congressional District election, 2018
        Carlos Curbelo, R, Incumbent
        The 26th district is located in far South Florida, and contains all of Monroe County as well as a portion of south-west Miami-Dade County.
        Primary August 28th
        Likely opponent is Debbie Mucarsel-Powell
      • California’s 25th Congressional District election, 2018
        Steve Knight, R, Incumbent
        California’s 25th congressional district is a congressional district in the U.S. state of California that covers part of northern Los Angeles County and part of Ventura County. It includes the cities of Santa Clarita, Simi Valley, Palmdale, Lancaster, and the northern part of the San Fernando Valley.
        Opponent: Kate Hill

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Episode 259 – A Little Off the Top

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SHAVING! HAIR! FUZZY! BRING IT ON!

(let’s face it, we are really phoning it in on these show descriptions)

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Register to vote!

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Ungagged 33 – Dealing With Panic

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For many, submitting is not easy. Be it from past trauma or fear instilled in you by others, it can take work and experience to get to a place to where you can submit and have as good of a time as you can alone with your hand. We talk about some triggers and strategies to move forward and have the submissive experience you know you need.

 Show Notes

  • Our Topic: Panic
    • A level of panic from a sub in a scene is natural and could even be desired to achieve the headspace you want. But, panic can also remove you from headspace as well.
    • Triggers – Learn and communicate with your Dom what triggers panicked feelings, and prepare yourself for what may be expected
    • Reality – Everyone is wanting to have a good time (in a consensual scene), so keep in the right head, try to stay calm, and communicate what you are feeling in the prearranged way
    • Solutions – If you expect to have a panicked reaction, you have three directions to work this out:
      • Choice to suppress – Trust your Dom and submit totally
      • Choice to trust – Know your partner
      • Choice to communicate – Have a clear or prearranged way to communicate a slow down or stop point mid-scene

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Episode 257 – Consent Culture

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A lot is changing in the age of #MeToo for women, but this is spilling over to other at-risk communities. There is abuse within the gay/queer/kink communities as well, and trans men and women are the biggest targets of abuse of all. We discuss our own actions and views of the past and how they seem cast in a different light now.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Register to vote!
  • In the News
    • Out of all people, Scarlett Johansson was chosen to play a major upcoming trans role, passing over any trans actors. Her response and the studio’s tone-deaf marketing are part of the problem.
    • There appears to be a long pattern of abuse by Kevin Spacey against his coworkers. Him and other famous abusers like Cosby should be written off as archaric art.
    • Make Ecstasy Great Again, Trump-shaped pills among a huge drug bust in rural Indiana.
    • Ever got a USB cable stuck inside your penis? A kid in China did and it didn’t turn out to be a wise idea.

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Episode 255 – Proud of Pride

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We’re sharing our experiences with the Pride Parade over many years in the community. Also, how it feels different in the era of Trump. Much has changed from our attitude to our pride flag. This year we’re involved as well and we talk about what we’re doing new this year.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?!
    • Violence against LGBT people exists and is a growing concern even in formerly safe refuges. Be careful and watch your back when you’re suckin’ dick.
  • In the News
    • Apparently, on Southwest you can masturbate during an entire flight. Sign me up!
    • A viagra subscription could ruin your marriage if you’re dumb enough to not use it on her too. Does that make CVS liable?
    • The FDA approves Truvada (PrEP) for at-risk adolescents (15-17).
    • A man used an alligator to hold another man captive for $800 ransom.
    • Two Canadians were covered in liquid plane poo which covered them and their car.

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Episode 254 – Lies and Liars

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Today’s show features lots of listener correspondence, a game of two truths and a lie, and maybe Florida.

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Like us on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/nosafewordshow/

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the The Rotator Flogger starting at $114.95.

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Episode 248 – Knot Enough

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We’re talking today about how to design and build a play scene as well as avoid some pitfalls that could end your scene before it reaches its climax!

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Hold on to your butts! The chaos and insanity is impossible to keep up with.
  • In the News
    • Imagine the horror of an innocent Ren-faire nerd who might happen into the unseemly den of a Re-sex faire! These controversies are veiled attacks at kink and fetishism.
    • Adam Rippon makes a connection with Elsa-drag hero.
  • Our Topic – Designing a Play Scene
    • Locks should be in service of the headspace of the sub… newbies could be taken out of their comfort zone, but others it could be important
    • Sensory deprivation. Consider the order you want to eliminate various senses. Many will start with a hood and add a blindfold and then a gag
    • Aftercare and the way to back out of a scene should always be on your mind. Safety shears are important when using rope or other bindings
    • You don’t need a dungeon or play room for kinky play. Be creative and tie them up to anything sturdy
    • If you can’t or don’t know how to tie up your partner, look for a buddy that can help!
    • Have your sub tie themselves up in some manner to be ready for your arrival. BE CAREFUL about self bondage!

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Ungagged 30 – Hot Under the Collar

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Today the boys talk all about collars, their meaning and symbolism, the good and the bad!

Show Notes

  • Paws for the News
  • All About Collars
    • Why do pups gravitate to collars?
    • Collars often represent a deep relationship dynamic
    • Wearing a collar full time is a constant connection back to your Handler/Sir
    • With great collar comes great responsibility!
    • Or, just collar yourself and you can go out and experience being a part of the community and learn what you like without a commitment.

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Episode 246 – Into the Weeds

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Today’s show welcomes Pup Skuff to the show on a Friday night!

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  • What Now?
  • Our Guest Today – Pup Skuff
    • He talks about his show
    • He covers the many benefits of marijuana
    • He started consuming it much later in life than many others
    • Do marijuana and kink go together? There are many who think kink should be pot-free.
    • Daddy Tony talks about his love of the combination
    • …and the conversation drfts off to pizza….and we return.
    • Differences in pot strains
      • Indica…”in the couch.” They tend to be more sedating
        Sativa: A more creative, more active high
    • Kink does have responsibilities…so over-indulging on pot is not a good idea.
    • A bong newly named “The Grammy Award-winning Dolly Parton” leads to a bit of unexpected Dolly love.
    • Still, pot is a mild drug…and can go well with kink
    • Skuff has a new podcast starting up. It soon will be up at

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