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Ungagged 35 – Head and Shoulders

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In this episode the pups are talking all about mind-fucks, brainwashing, and hypno!

 Show Notes

  • Hypno
    • Refer back to Ungagged 26, as well as NoSafeWord 6, 13, and 40
  • Mindfucking
    • Usually requires a good amount of trust to be established.
    • Difference between mindfuck and limit breaking
    • Knowing when a mindfuck is happening vs. Not knowing (sometimes that is part of the fun)
  • Brainwashing
    • Something very hot about control on this level
    • So many different things you can use in this arena:
      • Visuals
      • Audio
      • Sensory

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode, we feature the Peg Away Putty: Bump It Up! Kit.

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Episode 261 – Stalking Stuffers

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Have you ever had that someone that went from being interested to you to being infatuated with you? And won’t take no for an answer? We talk today about some experiences we have had with stalkers, and perhaps some ways you can get rid of the ones that won’t leave you alone.

 Show Notes

In the News

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode, we feature the Cargo Kilt Black.

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Episode 258 – Culture of Consent

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In this episode we address a couple of listener letters that were commenting on our previous episodes..

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Register to vote!

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode, we feature the Mid Size Standard Flogger.

 

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Episode 256 – Your Hunty

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This week we have a listener letter with a listener that wants to know more about the Seattle area. Then DFT and Sparky start talking about how there have been some really big generational shifts in the kink community. How are the shifts in the community affecting us and how we find out tribe.

 Show Notes

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Devonshire Gag.

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Ungagged 32 – When Nothing is Everything

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The pups talk all about chastity on this episode of the podcast!

Show Notes

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the The Boy Trainer Silicone Cock Cage.

 

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Episode 253 – On The Rocks

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Today’s show features our beloved pups from Ungagged Pup Brutus and Pup Boner, a.k.a. Drew and Mikey, as our guests today.

 Show Notes

  • In the News
  • A Listener Letter
    • The listener asks a very important question: when does domination go too far, especially for the sub, and when it is time for the sub to end the relationship?
    • It goes without saying, but if your life is in danger or you may harm yourself, call 911 and get yourself removed from that situation. Go to http://www.thehotline.org if you or a loved one are in danger.
    • Subs, you have a choice, and it is okay to step away from your relationship with your Dom.
    • If you are a Dom, you must be able to listen actively and effectively. You should not be a Dom otherwise.
    • To this particular listener, most of all, we hope you can talk to someone else about all this – from a simple friend to even a professional.
    • Being by yourself is also a perfectly awesome option, so there is always a choice.

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Time Lock Digital Padlock for $36.95.

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Ungagged 31 – Poppin’ the Shopping Cherry

 

Description of Show

Today the boys talk all about their experiences working and shopping in sex stores.

Show Notes

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the PINS.

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Episode 252 – Bromosexual

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Today’s show is about bromosexuals and their interactions with the general kink community.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • A lot is happening, but how about that…
  • In the News
  • Bromosexuals
    • The mystique of straight guys to gay men
    • The kink community is not just gay people, so straight guys and gay men do mix it up sometimes
    • There are straight guys in kink who actually prefer to be in the gay male scene since they have better gear
    • Still, can a guy be straight and enjoy occasional sex with another man? Have we grown out of labels for sexuality?

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Heavy Padded Bondage Sleeves for $879.95.

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Episode 251 – Yes Safeword

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Today’s show features Bobby Higley – Seattle’s Big, Queer Comic & Producer

 Show Notes

  • In the News
  • Our Guest Today – Bobby Higley
    • Recently produced Safeword
    • Raised Mormon, so not the happiest childhood
    • Found comedy at 18, and has been in the business since
    • Kinks are most definitely funny. Comedy can easily occur.
    • Amidst all the (necessary) rules of kink being welcoming to everyone, kink is still fun.
    • Bobby is active in queer stand-up comedy
    • His company, Gutter Twink Productions, can be found on Facebook.

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Bicep Binder for $79.95.

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Episode 250 – Letters and Words

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News and letters from listeners.

 Show Notes

  • A Few Letters from Listeners
    • The guys get some kudos for their Missouri accents, and relay a few interesting stories about the Midwest.
    • From the Midwest to the South, this listener asks the guys for advice on how to get a house slave. He also brings up a kink that the guys haven’t talked about much.

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Buttballs Cocksling & Ass Lock for $67.95.

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Episode 249 – Is That Wrong?

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The guys take on a variety of topics.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Roseanne is back it seems. Daddy Tony has some interesting other things he would rather watch.
  • In the News
  • Let’s Open Our Telegram Messages
    • A very hot topic in our forum discussed puppies who happen to be female.
      • While the pup community is overwhelmingly male, it does not mean puppies cannot be female. We are *all* free to be who we want to be.
      • It does create the issue of those puppies who would prefer to mosh with their own sex. There should be spaces at public mosh events where opposite-sex moshing is designated to happen.
      • Personal preferences are nothing to apologize about, and a cis-male pup having a private party can invite only male-identified pups.
      • At a public mosh in a public space, sex is normally not allowed, so anyone of any cis-gender should be able to attend, while attendees there have the right to choose who they get on the mat with.

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Tri-Squeeze Cock Ring & Stretcher for $22.95.

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Episode 247 – Gender Schmender

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Today’s very special guest is Sister PussyWillow and she will discuss transgender and how they interact with the different kink communities.

 Show Notes

  • Our Guest Today – Sister PussyWillow
    • Transgender and the general kink community. Sister will give us some insight.
    • Pronouns. Always important.
    • With our guest, all three of us are Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, so they all talk about gender and being a Sister.
    • Talking of BDSM and Trans, what can the “typical” leather guy do to make Trans people more welcome?
    • The immortal line between a personal preference and being phobic of a community.
      • Where does it lie between a gay cisgendered male who is not attracted to female genitalia, and a trans man who has female genitalia?
      • Must a gay cisgendered male accept every invitation to sex with a trans man out of fear of being called transphobic?
      • Are personal preferences allowed?
    • Let’s go: RuPaul and the banning of trans women from RuPaul’s Drag Race (which Ru ended up rescinding the ban and apologizes.)
      • Will Ru recover from this, or is this time a step too far?
      • If things do go negative, does Ru still need to suffer a full shunning, or maybe just less attention?
      • What about drag and its general prohibition to cisgendered females (while trans men doing female drag does not seem to be a problem?)
    • The unfortunately-common question to trans males who do female drag: Why did you transition to male if you like to wear dresses?

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the 1 3/4″ Leather Armband with Piping. From small to extra-large, and in red, gray, blue, and yellow piping. Only $29.95!

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Episode 245 -Swinging Dead Squirrels

Description of Show

Daddy Tony is back and we take this time to read a listener’s letter.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Let’s let Daddy Tony have a recovery week. ;)
  • A Listener Letter
    • Our listener lets us know about Daddy Tony’s common recycling practice.
    • He lets us know that we…are….awesome. Awwww.
    • Let’s bring boys back to the table!
    • There are a lot of honorifics for D-types…what are they and how do people get them?
    • …aaaaand an awesome dick pic. Good therapy for a recovering Daddy Tony!

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Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Neoprene Wrist and Ankle Restraints for $79.95 each.

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Episode 244 – DFT Down

Today we have a special episode to give an update on where Daddy Tony is at right now. He has been dealing with some health issues and we were not able to record on our normal schedule while he recovers. Send all the best possible love and energy his way.

 

 

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