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Episode 264 – Piss Goats

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Today we catch up with the world and ourselves with a heavy dose of news. This wide-reaching show stretches from aromanticism to a naked Florida man!

 Show Notes

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Episode 263 – Queer Cripple

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We have an enlightening conversation with awareness expert Andrew Gurza about all forms of discrimination affect our society and our sexual community. We also talk about the use of language and how it relates to discrimination verses self-acceptance.

 Show Notes

  • In the News
    • Praising someone as a gold star gay is the queer equivalent of militant heterosexuality. Belittling bisexuality as illegitimate or less acceptable does a disservice to the cause of all seeking acceptance.

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Guest Bio

Andrew Gurza is a Disability Awareness Consultant and Cripple Content Creator whose written work has been featured in Daily Xtra, Gay Times UK, Huffington Post, The Advocate, Everyday Feminism, Mashable, and Out.com, and several anthologies. He has guested on a number of podcasts including Dan Savage’s Savage Love and Cameron Esposito’s Queery. He has spoken all over North America on sex, disability and what it means to be a Queer Cripple. He is also the host of the DisabilityAfterDark: The Podcast Shining a Bright Light on Sex and Disability available on all podcast platforms. You can follow the podcast @disaftdarkpod. You can find out more about Andrew by going to www.andrewgurza.com & connecting with him on Twitter @andrewgurza

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Episode 262 – Flogging the Monkey

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Flogging, whipping, and paddling are common kinks but despite the seeming simplicity of the act, there are a lot of choices of an implement, as well as safety concerns to remember.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • The origin of the phrase “tossing the salad”
  • In the News
  • Our Topic

    • Floggers
      • Cowhide (thud)
      • Mixed leather/rubber (stingy thud)
      • Elk (heavy thudder)
      • Suede looped falls (thudder, good for beginners)
      • Rotary cowhide
      • Rope flogger, (DIY, Made it in the early 90’s.)
      • Braided cat
    • Whips
      • 3ft single tale
      • Cat’s claw
    • Paddles
      • Leather
      • Wood
      • Leather/wood with holes
      • Rubber
      • Gloved
      • Bare hands
      • OTK
    • DIY
      • Spoons
      • Hairbrushes
      • Rope floggers
      • Paracord floggers

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Episode 260 – Ten Questions

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Today we’re answering the first 10 questions provided by our listeners in out Telegram chat room. Hear everything from how we decided to start the podcast to the biggest “thing” we’ve ever taken! Thank you to Sir Arcane, Filli Maris, James Smith, Pup Peter, Vel, Pup Taxyl, Kupo, Wingman DBQ, Pup Dante, and Trikoot!

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • There are some targeted congressional districts to flip!
      • Florida’s 26th Congressional District election, 2018
        Carlos Curbelo, R, Incumbent
        The 26th district is located in far South Florida, and contains all of Monroe County as well as a portion of south-west Miami-Dade County.
        Primary August 28th
        Likely opponent is Debbie Mucarsel-Powell
      • California’s 25th Congressional District election, 2018
        Steve Knight, R, Incumbent
        California’s 25th congressional district is a congressional district in the U.S. state of California that covers part of northern Los Angeles County and part of Ventura County. It includes the cities of Santa Clarita, Simi Valley, Palmdale, Lancaster, and the northern part of the San Fernando Valley.
        Opponent: Kate Hill

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Episode 259 – A Little Off the Top

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SHAVING! HAIR! FUZZY! BRING IT ON!

(let’s face it, we are really phoning it in on these show descriptions)

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Register to vote!

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Ungagged 33 – Dealing With Panic

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For many, submitting is not easy. Be it from past trauma or fear instilled in you by others, it can take work and experience to get to a place to where you can submit and have as good of a time as you can alone with your hand. We talk about some triggers and strategies to move forward and have the submissive experience you know you need.

 Show Notes

  • Our Topic: Panic
    • A level of panic from a sub in a scene is natural and could even be desired to achieve the headspace you want. But, panic can also remove you from headspace as well.
    • Triggers – Learn and communicate with your Dom what triggers panicked feelings, and prepare yourself for what may be expected
    • Reality – Everyone is wanting to have a good time (in a consensual scene), so keep in the right head, try to stay calm, and communicate what you are feeling in the prearranged way
    • Solutions – If you expect to have a panicked reaction, you have three directions to work this out:
      • Choice to suppress – Trust your Dom and submit totally
      • Choice to trust – Know your partner
      • Choice to communicate – Have a clear or prearranged way to communicate a slow down or stop point mid-scene

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Episode 255 – Proud of Pride

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We’re sharing our experiences with the Pride Parade over many years in the community. Also, how it feels different in the era of Trump. Much has changed from our attitude to our pride flag. This year we’re involved as well and we talk about what we’re doing new this year.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?!
    • Violence against LGBT people exists and is a growing concern even in formerly safe refuges. Be careful and watch your back when you’re suckin’ dick.
  • In the News
    • Apparently, on Southwest you can masturbate during an entire flight. Sign me up!
    • A viagra subscription could ruin your marriage if you’re dumb enough to not use it on her too. Does that make CVS liable?
    • The FDA approves Truvada (PrEP) for at-risk adolescents (15-17).
    • A man used an alligator to hold another man captive for $800 ransom.
    • Two Canadians were covered in liquid plane poo which covered them and their car.

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Episode 253 – On The Rocks

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Today’s show features our beloved pups from Ungagged Pup Brutus and Pup Boner, a.k.a. Drew and Mikey, as our guests today.

 Show Notes

  • In the News
  • A Listener Letter
    • The listener asks a very important question: when does domination go too far, especially for the sub, and when it is time for the sub to end the relationship?
    • It goes without saying, but if your life is in danger or you may harm yourself, call 911 and get yourself removed from that situation. Go to http://www.thehotline.org if you or a loved one are in danger.
    • Subs, you have a choice, and it is okay to step away from your relationship with your Dom.
    • If you are a Dom, you must be able to listen actively and effectively. You should not be a Dom otherwise.
    • To this particular listener, most of all, we hope you can talk to someone else about all this – from a simple friend to even a professional.
    • Being by yourself is also a perfectly awesome option, so there is always a choice.

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Episode 248 – Knot Enough

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We’re talking today about how to design and build a play scene as well as avoid some pitfalls that could end your scene before it reaches its climax!

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Hold on to your butts! The chaos and insanity is impossible to keep up with.
  • In the News
    • Imagine the horror of an innocent Ren-faire nerd who might happen into the unseemly den of a Re-sex faire! These controversies are veiled attacks at kink and fetishism.
    • Adam Rippon makes a connection with Elsa-drag hero.
  • Our Topic – Designing a Play Scene
    • Locks should be in service of the headspace of the sub… newbies could be taken out of their comfort zone, but others it could be important
    • Sensory deprivation. Consider the order you want to eliminate various senses. Many will start with a hood and add a blindfold and then a gag
    • Aftercare and the way to back out of a scene should always be on your mind. Safety shears are important when using rope or other bindings
    • You don’t need a dungeon or play room for kinky play. Be creative and tie them up to anything sturdy
    • If you can’t or don’t know how to tie up your partner, look for a buddy that can help!
    • Have your sub tie themselves up in some manner to be ready for your arrival. BE CAREFUL about self bondage!

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This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Jack Socket Electro Stroker.

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Ungagged 30 – Hot Under the Collar

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Today the boys talk all about collars, their meaning and symbolism, the good and the bad!

Show Notes

  • Paws for the News
  • All About Collars
    • Why do pups gravitate to collars?
    • Collars often represent a deep relationship dynamic
    • Wearing a collar full time is a constant connection back to your Handler/Sir
    • With great collar comes great responsibility!
    • Or, just collar yourself and you can go out and experience being a part of the community and learn what you like without a commitment.

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Episode 247 – Gender Schmender

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Today’s very special guest is Sister PussyWillow and she will discuss transgender and how they interact with the different kink communities.

 Show Notes

  • Our Guest Today – Sister PussyWillow
    • Transgender and the general kink community. Sister will give us some insight.
    • Pronouns. Always important.
    • With our guest, all three of us are Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, so they all talk about gender and being a Sister.
    • Talking of BDSM and Trans, what can the “typical” leather guy do to make Trans people more welcome?
    • The immortal line between a personal preference and being phobic of a community.
      • Where does it lie between a gay cisgendered male who is not attracted to female genitalia, and a trans man who has female genitalia?
      • Must a gay cisgendered male accept every invitation to sex with a trans man out of fear of being called transphobic?
      • Are personal preferences allowed?
    • Let’s go: RuPaul and the banning of trans women from RuPaul’s Drag Race (which Ru ended up rescinding the ban and apologizes.)
      • Will Ru recover from this, or is this time a step too far?
      • If things do go negative, does Ru still need to suffer a full shunning, or maybe just less attention?
      • What about drag and its general prohibition to cisgendered females (while trans men doing female drag does not seem to be a problem?)
    • The unfortunately-common question to trans males who do female drag: Why did you transition to male if you like to wear dresses?

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Episode 246 – Into the Weeds

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Today’s show welcomes Pup Skuff to the show on a Friday night!

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
  • Our Guest Today – Pup Skuff
    • He talks about his show
    • He covers the many benefits of marijuana
    • He started consuming it much later in life than many others
    • Do marijuana and kink go together? There are many who think kink should be pot-free.
    • Daddy Tony talks about his love of the combination
    • …and the conversation drfts off to pizza….and we return.
    • Differences in pot strains
      • Indica…”in the couch.” They tend to be more sedating
        Sativa: A more creative, more active high
    • Kink does have responsibilities…so over-indulging on pot is not a good idea.
    • A bong newly named “The Grammy Award-winning Dolly Parton” leads to a bit of unexpected Dolly love.
    • Still, pot is a mild drug…and can go well with kink
    • Skuff has a new podcast starting up. It soon will be up at

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Episode 245 -Swinging Dead Squirrels

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Daddy Tony is back and we take this time to read a listener’s letter.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Let’s let Daddy Tony have a recovery week. ;)
  • A Listener Letter
    • Our listener lets us know about Daddy Tony’s common recycling practice.
    • He lets us know that we…are….awesome. Awwww.
    • Let’s bring boys back to the table!
    • There are a lot of honorifics for D-types…what are they and how do people get them?
    • …aaaaand an awesome dick pic. Good therapy for a recovering Daddy Tony!

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Episode 243 – News and jizz

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Today’s show opens up to our listeners and the messages they have sent us.

 Show Notes

  • What Now?
    • Blech. *sigh*
  • In the News
  • Listener Letters
    • One of our listeners asks if it is acceptable to the kink community to have experience being a sub to be a Sir?
      • It is “acceptable” as anything involving consenting adults is “acceptable.”
      • Not everyone may be accepting of you personally, of course.
      • Still, you can do your research online if experience hasn’t taught you. You won’t be perfect of course.
      • Being a Dom requires responsibility…or at least being a good Dom does.
      • Still, a newbie Dom should still go to kink events out-of-town and seek out advice from other Doms with more experience.
    • Another listener questions the worthiness of health care providing anti-viral medication who are bug chasers.
      • We are all worthy, even if some of us have faults.
      • Should smoking, overeating, and other factors also make us “unworthy” of health care?
      • Anti-viral medications are expensive…up to $4,000/month. Still, at least in the US, the drug manufacturer provides financial assistance for most who cannot afford it, both directly from them and through state-level programs that the manufacturer donates to.
      • We in the gay community already experience marginalization. We need to try very hard not to marginalize others, especially aimed at our own community.

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